Why are we always afraid? What if I’m not successful at finding what I love and want ? What if I won’t make enough money? What if I fail? What if I don’t meet the right person? What if I don’t lose the weight I want? What if, what if, what if.….Where did we learn this from, the scarcity and fear? It’s just our brains way of keeping us safe, by constantly scanning for danger, even if it doesn’t exist.
We all want nothing more than to get to that place where we feel abundance, and true gratitude for everything that we have and have had. But how does one get from scarcity to abundance. There are so many books and guides on this, and the most common recommendations are.
–Focus on gratitude to create an abundant life.
–Surround yourself with people who have an abundance mentality.
–Focus on your unique strengths.
–Do more of what you love.
DO MORE OF WHAT YOU LOVE ? But what if you don’t know what you love?
I know that sounds silly but I still don’t know what I love at 40, even though I am considered a successful professional business owner by most standards. So for today all I can do is start with my gratitude list, and continue to search for my passion and what fans my flame.